Step 6: You want me to stick that WHERE?

The dreaded injections. Probably the one thing that made me nervous. I was convinced I would have to get Dave to inject me every morning … or that I would be too scared to even go through with it.

Turns out it was easy. Listen, when you’ve had 2 babies by caesarian section, the bit of your tummy where you need to jab yourself every day is still pretty numb, so I hardly ever felt a thing.

Hang on a sec … I’m getting ahead of myself here!

So, a couple of weeks ago, after having been approved as a donor, I popped through to Medfem for the first batch of “tests”. To ensure that:

  1. my egg-making machines are in order – with what Tanya referred to as the “dildo-cam” aka an internal scan :) ;
  2. I am free of HIV, Hepatitis and all the other gross things … with a number of blood tests;
  3. I’m of sane mind – during a 30 minute consultation with a psychologist.

I waited just under a week to get all the results back. I’m happy to report that I am in prime egg-making condition, lurgy-free and I’M NOT NUTS! :D

Sister K then instructed me to start my active contraceptive pill (if you’re not already on the pill, you will be put on it) so that my recipient and I would be on the same cycle. I find this fascinating and totally incredible. Our bodies are being synched so that she can receive my gift!

On the second day of my period (about 3 weeks later), I returned to Medfem to commence my fertility treatment programme. After a quick blood pressure test to ensure that I was doing well, we got down to the nitty gritty.

Sister K showed me how the injections for the first 3 days worked – simple enough. Draw 0.15ml into the syringe and then, inject into the area on my tummy, just under my belly button. Simple and actually next to no pain/sting/burn at all. Sister K then showed me how the additional injections (which I would only start on day 4) were to be “assembled” and administered. Day 6 would also see me start an antibiotic.

    

And here I am – day 7. All the “dreaded injections” are done. Forgotten. Simple. A daily 10 minute inconvenience for me and the chance of receiving the most incredible gift for a woman desperate to become a mother.It’s a no-brainer.

Right from the start, I wondered if I’d want to do this again, or if it’s something that I’d just do as a once off. I can say now, without a shadow of a doubt … I’ll do it again in a heartbeat.

If you’re interested in signing up as a donor, visit the Nurture donor application page now.

12 thoughts on “Step 6: You want me to stick that WHERE?

  1. Wow – you are very brave and doing such a selfless thing. I have a colleague who struggled for about a decade to fall pregnant and she did eventually via an egg donor. Her daughter is here because of someone like you!!!

    Let us know how the rest goes!!!

    P.S. why an antibiotic??

  2. So amazing!!! I read up on it on a link you posted & wanted to do it as well but I’m too old :( So please do it one more time for me! Lol! X

  3. Absolutly amazing!!!! So incredible :) your blog has given me gooose bumps…. You are such an angel for doing something like this..

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  5. I really admire what you are doing and just have to say a huge big thank you to people like you as it’s because of a donor that we are 9 weeks away from meeting our precious precious little baby girl.

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